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Not my Inner Bitch but rather My Inner Dragon

Sep 20
2 min read


I’ve been getting to know a powerful part of myself lately.

At first, I called it my Inner Bitch. The part that says:

NO.Enough.This doesn’t work for me.I’m not doing that anymore.

And honestly, witnessing this part of myself reclaim its power felt uncomfortable at first.


I was so used to being accommodating, understanding, flexible and open. So when this fiercer energy began to rise, it initially felt like I was being difficult, selfish or even a little bitchy.

But I’ve come to understand it very differently.


My Inner Bitch is actually my Inner Dragon.

The Dragon doesn’t need to fight. It doesn’t need to prove itself. It simply knows its power.


It carries the Sword of Truth.


It knows when something is aligned and when it isn’t.It knows when to stay and when to walk away.It knows what deserves its energy and what doesn’t.And it knows that NO can be a complete sentence.

There is something incredibly powerful about witnessing yourself reclaim this part of your being.


Not from anger.Not from fear.Not from the need to control.

But from integrity, self-respect and your highest truth.

As we move into the darker season, there is a natural invitation to shed old skins and turn inward. To notice what you’ve outgrown, what drains your life force and what you are simply no longer willing to carry.


So I’m asking myself, and perhaps you can ask yourself too:

Where am I still abandoning myself to keep someone else comfortable?

What is my sacred NO?

What would become possible if I trusted it?


And perhaps, on the other side of that NO, there is an even more powerful YES.

A YES to your energy.A YES to your truth.A YES to your boundaries.A YES to the life, relationships and experiences that honour who you are becoming.


Your Dragon is not here to make you harder.It is here to help you become more whole.

If this is stirring something in you, this is also the heart of much of the work I offer. Spaces to explore your truth, reconnect with your life force, clear what no longer serves you and remember the power that already lives within you.



And I’d genuinely love to hear from you. What is your Inner Dragon asking you to honour right now? I’d love to hear what is shifting for you. Please share your reflections with me!

May you have the courage to speak your truth, the discernment to honour your sacred NO, and the fire to stand powerfully in your own energy.


Honour your fire.Trust your knowing.

Let your Dragon rise!


Marda ❤️✨



 
 
 

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